My Intro: Thanks for Reading!

[RedSoxFan]

When I make it through this I'm going to be very proud of myself

I get what I need to do from a theory perspective. Very clear. Check.

I'm already doing a good job of GAL and mostly on 180. I've mostly kept cool front, haven't groveled, been firm on my position, boundaries, etc. Check. Did unleash some hurtful blame things this week but hey, noone's perfect.

So my assumption is that I just keep on keepin on until something changes on W's end that signals me to get deeper into my script.

The one thing that I'm not so sure about is the issue with D. A month or more back I asked W to hold off on moving forward with Disillusion and she agreed if I would stop hassling her about seeing OM. Looking back, this is the one move that I'm not sure about. In hind-sight it may not have been the right move. But that's where I am now. Should I leave well enough alone or is this working against me? It has come up once or twice since our agreement. She reintroduced it when she was angry and both times I just stepped aside and ignored it and that was the end. What's the best way to handle?