I tried to call her cell, to tell her I'm sick about all this. But I didn't leave a message or anything. I guess I need to stick this out.
I told her this morning that I can work with her for mediation, that she doesn't need this lawyer.
She wants to sit down this weekend and talk about how we're going to split things out. She says that she's willing to put every last of her dollars into the boys, while I'm making sounds about pushing back on support - that we should look at daycare for the boys, and let the ride the bus, so she can work vs. letting her take care of them. She's worried about me strong-arming her, and there's nobody in her corner if she gives up the lawyer and goes for mediation.
SHe wants to use the stock sale money to pay the bills. I said that's fine, I don't have an issue with that, but we should have some in reserve for contengencies. THat is, she thinks I'm making a control play to hide money.
