A Little Epiphany - (and a newbie delurking)

[Dia]

Hi Dia.

I would say you are probably spot on with your assessment. The comments he made about future activities sounded like a need for reassurance that things were still heading towards you two being together. You kind of rattled his cage last night.

Hmm, you really think so? Even tho he goes out twice a week and I've only done it twice period, you think I rattled him that hard?

I'll keep that in mind. Not gonna do what Coach suggested via email; will wait and do it in person tonight. Will make more hors d'ouvres to have ready when he gets home - he liked that.

Also, forgot to mention this - H said kidlet wanted to have a sleepover *here* tonight. I said I was fine with that, but where would I sleep as sleepovers happen in the LR.

H: Hmm, you're right. I can set the kids up in kidlet's room somehow. Or you could sleep in the big bed.

Dia: You're right. We'll work it out somehow.

Just FYI, both of them sleeping in kidlet's room won't work. This is a funky old house that has been added onto stupidly. Kidlet's room is oddly L-shaped and never more than 4-5 feet wide. There very literally is not room for a second child to sleep in there.

I handled his mention of me sleeping in the MBR very lightly. I was afraid that if I said Yes immediately to that, he'd rethink it negatively during the day.