: ) Hi Pearl, actually if you and BF have lived together for 6 mo in CO you are common law married in the wonderfully populated state of Colorado.
That piece of paper is a piece of paper let others put the import of it, pain is pain nothing makes anyone more or less valid and really? Who cares its not like you can whip it out and compare it.
I'd rather avoid the my advice is bigger than your advice metaphysical cat-fight....mmmmm cat-fight...give me a second there....
one more second...mmmm...
ok... look advice is advice, yadda yadda yadda, everyone has some, and everyone has an a$$hole a well. Mine is the OM.
Gucci, Puppy, Phoenix and several others, their advice is good in certain situations, WAH and such, and they post in those forums. Their advice isn't really geared toward MLC where there are long odds and tight ropes. These guys are positively great at regaining your self esteem. And their advice works wonderfully well in a logical situation.
But here in MLC there be dragons, here is Wonderland.
Experience is a brutal teacher, but you learn. My God, do you learn. - C.S. Lewis
Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B. - Jack3Beans
Listen without defending; Speak without offending - FaithinAK
