ok, but would you love him any less? Why go looking for trouble? I mean sure you are dealing with all of this but digging is just going to cause more problems with healing now if not later.

My biological mom cheated on my Dad. He walked in on them when he forgot something he needed for work and went home to get it. I have never met her, he got sole custody which was really reare back in the 60's. Later when I was in junior high we were doing "blood typing" for a class and when I told my parents mine, my Dad was like no way is that what your type is!! So maybe I am not his. I don't know and my family tree is a bit of a mess anyway, who cares? I love the family I have and while I may have some curiosity about it, it is a can of worms I am leaving alone.

I think you should do the same.

kat


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S24, S21, D18, D17
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