Newcomer, want to keep my hope alive!

[iwantittowork]

Income - Expenses = Cash Flow. It's like trying to lose weight. Can you increase income? Where can you cut expenses?

Thanks Coach, I have become very well acquainted with the cash flow process the last few years, so understand it well. My W, not so much, guess that's why I worry about it so much, and she doesn't at all.

However, I understand I am not even at the point yet to make decisions about cutting expenses, increasing income.

First step for me. Put everything on paper, and get it to the mediator. There's no cutting corners here, it is what it will be, the figures won't lie, better or worse for me, nothing I can do about that at this time.

When all figures are down on paper, and the assets are split, then I can make good decisions about next financial steps.

Got to approach this just like a business for now, until things are split, and I know what I'll need to focus on.

Working on handling it..