GIMA - your situation contiues to drift in the right direction. I have had similar experiences with W's attitude about activities - she plans things solo for the most part but is starting to take some baby steps towards thinking about me in the plans here and there I have found. I am just continuing on the path I have set more recently with her and watching for progress at this point.

I have had similar thoughts about my W's sleeping arrangements lately - when will she get tired of sleeping on a couch in our bonus room? She moved in there around Memorial Day.

Something will hvae to give because the room she is in gets very cold in the winter - 3 outside walls and lots of windows.

ME/XW:47
S21, D19, S15, S14
M:21 T:26
W moved 6/10 I filed 7/10 D final 4/12 remarried 8/12
W wants to R 12/10 and 4/11 but I decline