I question whether the C has a clue about how to deal with this issue.
I'm not sure either. Maybe he glossed over it and moved on because he didn't know what to do or say about it. I loved the look on his face as I told him.
Ha. good observation. He probably thought, oh [censored], but then fell back on some kind of misguided notion that he's not allowed to "take sides" and not allowed "to judge."
Unfortunately a lot of women experience this kind of crap when they go to C with an abuser. Anyway, the issue isn't about judging swinging, it's about judging someone being coerced into activities that are degrading TO HER. YOU get to be the judge of that.
And my blood is boiling thinking about the term "constructive criticism." WTF is that? You aren't DOING ANYTHING. He doesn't need "help" trying to convince you to act any way other than how you feel comfortable.
