I dont' think we can make up for it. We can try to minimize it and become the parent we probably always wanted to be anyway but...
Boy, I'm glad I'm not the only one who is sort of blurred from the bomb. I remember but then there is so much other stuff as well that to know when it all occured is just too much sometimes. LOL Makes my brain hurt.
"Acceptance doesn't mean resignation. It means understanding that something is what it is and there's got to be a way through it."--Michael J. Fox