ANY time I have even started bringing up something that bothers me though it shuts her down or sets her off though. I have heard "I'm sick of hearing what you want," and "It's always about you," so many times
Give a specific example of what you said and why and her response.
There are always consequences.
M22,H45,W45 S21/18D12 Retain faith that you will prevail in the end, regardless of the difficulties and at the same time confront the most brutal facts of your current reality, whatever they might be.