I'll read more about it. ANY time I have even started bringing up something that bothers me though it shuts her down or sets her off though. I have heard "I'm sick of hearing what you want," and "It's always about you," so many times. Sometimes it gives her a roadmap of what she will do next. The very thing that I have asked her not to do!
I have had a habit in the past of not letting something go if it bothered me. I have gotten a lot better at that now.
Me: 35 W: 31 S:9 M: 10 years Together 13 MySitch - Ups & Downs She moved out the day before Thanksgiving 2009, over 13 months post-bomb.
