Keep Your Hands Offa My Mojo

[hoosiermama]

A DB Coach is for the DB'er. She's not DB'ing. I may or may not be DB'ing.

Weird thing. Woke up at 0330 this ay em.

As I lay there in the bed, it occurred to me:

I don't miss being married. And I don't remember when I stopped.

A curious sensation.

I daresay that most of us here don't miss being married, with the exception of those who are new to the situation and still in the shock and awe phase. For most of us, more recent memories of marriage are far from pleasant, comforting, or remotely positive for that matter. It is where we lost ourselves, our happiness, our stability, our sense of life as somewhat predictable and at least marginally under our control. I think that what we really want is marriage re-invented, different from what we've become accustomed to, with a bit less of a knee-jerk, stun reaction like a dog with a shock collar.