Finding myself struggling with my H's inability to finish during ML. Says he feels pressured. I didn't feel like I was the one initiating anything when we were at the lake this weekend but apparently he felt pressured? I don't know really what to make of this. I know it's his issue but it does hurt one's ego. He says that maybe he has deep seeded issues to work through.
We've still not had any R talk. Do I still just let things be? I mean at some point doesn't there need to be some R talk - setting boundaries etc.? Especially if our goal is that to put our marriage back together!
I feel like we're getting our friendship back but it's still not totally comfortable for me. He really needs to get started on IC! I know I shouldn't push that so I haven't brought it up. When he's brought it up I just confirm that I think it would be a good thing for him to do.
Am I still on track? I'm really trying to work on not having any expectations of him right now. I know I'm setting him up for failure and myself up for disappointment. It's just extremely hard!
