The light of a new day. Slept 4 hrs last night I consider that very good, actually feeling refreshed. Wrote wife an email last night saying that I am not mad and do support and respect her decision. Then I went on to say that I would move out of the house so that she and the kids could move back in and at least have some sense of normalcy in their lives, I also said that I would agree to any conditions that she puts on moving back in. I just want my kids as comfortable as possible
She asked me two days ago to move out and I said I would not do that, later that same day I went into town to speak to our priest about the state of things and told him that my wife wanted me to leave the house, he advised me not to do that saying that a husband and wife stick it out and should work through it.
When I came home my wife wanted to know what we spoke about, when I mentioned the part about him advising me to stay put wife became very quiet. I'm sure this was the point where she decided.
I also told her that I would continue to deposit money into her acct as per usual and that my concern was for her and the kids comfort.
Does anyone have any other advice on a next move? My plan is to stay put and wait for her to contact me and go from there.