I'm starting to think what Dday has been saying, that our ex's are all on the same drama schedule. Actually, I think their brains are all tuned to the same radio frequency: plan 9 from outer space, or something like.
LOL, yeah, I'm not sure what frequency it is, thank goodness it's out of our reception range.
At least I can safely say that I haven't had to deal with the dropping in unanounced issue. I mean I pass 'her house' every morning and usually every night. I have only 'bumped' into my kids on a handful of occasions thus far and each time XW has been receptive to me driving them back home or what not. But on each occasion I verify with the kids if XW is home or not, otherwise it's a no go.
Me 35/XW 33 S13 & S12 M: 10/17/98 OM & S: 07/08 D final 06/09/09 12/03/09 - 06/13/10 "Piercing" 06/13/10: Engaged to Re-marry 10/17/10 06/25/10: Expecting baby #3 2/14/11