It's MY life now!!!........

[peacetoday]

Silent
That makes sense what your C said about mourning for thre loss of the future
I also mourned for the loss of the family
that was the hardest for me to give up
the family unit could NEVER be the same again with xh
My parents stayed together my xh parents did not
so that was hard for me as I was raised to work it thru NO MATTER what!

smart also to not get in another R until you are ready-
In my case I mat my BF dancing right after D was Final..I was taking lessons with another friend and we would frequent this place weekly
the attraction was strong and dancing with BF made it worse
I resisted it for many months
and we were friends and I would not go out with him
then
I decided to try
so far it is working out
so you will know or sometimes it just happens and God knows?
follow your heart..you are smart to continue the grieving till the end
then it is over
not that I dont sometimes still think of XH
But I dont feel the same for him as I did even 8 months ago
peace