I think you have to look and see where it is coming from. In other words, my W right now has said and done hurtful things. She rejects me daily. But if she isn't really in her "right" state of mind, I can disregard those things. If we begin to reconnect and start to reconcile, those hurtful things should stop. If they don't, then I would start wondering if it is time to move on myself. I hope this makes sense. We are starting Retrouvaille tonight, and I have been kinda thinking this way. She isn't wearing her rings and sometimes talks to me like I am one of the children. But she is hurting inside. Hopefully this weekend will help her start to heal herself so we can heal the M.
Me-40 W-41 Together-10 M-8 S-6 S-4 Bomb 5/08 Bomb 10/08 Thought things were better, was wrong. Still living together Wife doesn't think she will ever love me again.
