And another thing....yes I am going to fight the divorce. But I am in a very different position as I do have a child with this idiot I'm still in love with. (Good thing for him!)
I'm not going to go to the courthouse and sit there doing my own karaoke version of Pink's Don't leave me.....
But if the time comes, I will simply file for an extension per my state's law to allow us to reconcile during that time. My state's laws do lean toward encouraging reconciliation, despite being a no fault state.
Again, protect yourself but you can fight this to a certain extent. And for me, I want it on record that Mommy did everything she could to fight this D, if it were to ever happen. That's for me and my karma.
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For any man with half his wits about him, that's hot! She know's who she is, she knows what she wants and she's not afraid to go after it.
I don't agree one bit. VERY unattractive. A woman who continues to try and win a man or who won't let go when he pulls away isn't hot at all. It is a turnoff. It almost never brings him around.
YOUR very own situation is evidence of this RSF. When your wife WAS fighting for her marriage, you rejected her. It was only AFTER she stopped fighting for it that you woke up and suddenly you were never so attracted to her..
