Bridge, thanks again, no unfortunately the is no one to be with me tonight. Friends and family I have called and all are very supportive. I think it's important for me to be alone right now...needed. Stuck, no specific arguement, just the same old yoyo two days of good followed by on or two of bad. She just got sick of the pattern. Told me last night "I need to see something new from you." Thanks for the prayers. Sorry I'm not more articulate tonight.