Have fun finding out who GG really is. I would caution that you only make changes that are right for you and not designed solely to get your absent spouse back. While you explore make sure to stay in tune with your inner GG and do nothing that would make it impossible for your absent spouse to return. Changes made for the wrong reasons rarely stick and just won't feel comfortable. ~ swl
Look not mournfully into the past. It comes not back again. Wisely improve the present. It is thine. Go forth to meet the shadowy future, without fear. {Henry Wadsworth Longfellow}
