Originally Posted By: brandnewday
Oh and Pearl....

From reading your dates, if you are piecing, now, then your boyfriend wasn't MLC.

Things in MLC are so very different then WAS.
Things are also different when you are married.


No, I never said BF was in MLC. I am very tired of people telling me that it's just SO different. Fine. Whatever. From now on I will never post on any MLC thread because I can't possibly have any insight on what you all are going through.

But I will not let anyone imply that my experience is not valid because we are not married. We have been together longer than most of our married friends and many people on this board. We have lived together, bought and sold houses together and moved cross country together twice. Just because I don't have a piece of paper, my choice, does not mean that my relationship is less meaningful than those with the piece of paper.


If you love somebody, set them free.
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