Well this other couple are friends. Her H and I have been talking putting 2 heads together type thing. This is really becoming quite an ordeal. They both say they are just friends. There has been a lot of ppl voicing thier opinion on what is going on..... none of them are happy. As far as the whole him and OW thing I have strong suspitions that it is more on end then the other. As far as he and I we have been laughing and joking around a bit. We still live in the same house and he is telling everyone that if things change we will be a family once again.... To bad for him there is going to have to limits set in place when it comes to "Friend". I know I need to trust but as for right precious trust is being throwen overboard without a net.

As for how to handle him well I will just say I have spent a lot time thinking and well you get more bees with honey. The positive button.


t=5.5yrs m=4
kids=4 (8,9,10,&11)
I dropped the bomb 10-09
regaining myself
in house seperation 9-6-09
divorce final 4-19-10
Moved out 9-17-09