And of course, you live together so no going dark. But during the day, you can give him his space. Even at home you can do the same thing. He's having a nutty, leave the room, leave the house or ignore it.
Heck yeah. He's been so even-keeled lately, if a bit cold, like suddenly we've gone back to before all this happened. I'm waiting for the other shoe to drop...
Thanks so much for all of your advice. You've been a huge help. I hope someday I can get to a place of wisdom and strength and pass it on.