Hey Gucci, Puppy, RobX and Coach!

[BigJohn]

Hi BigJohn
Just read your posts. What is the current situation with OM and W?

Stronger,

Don't know if you read my other thread or not over at WAS. I started this one recently to get specific feedback from the above posters on tough love strategies. In any event, thanks for looking along with any feedback you might wish to share.

Current status of my W's A is that my W informed me late last week that OM had dumped her because he was "feeling guilty about being the person who broke up her family". Frankly, I don't know what to believe anymore. My W acted unhappy when she told me this but did not make eye contact with me at all and refused to tell me exactly when OM dumped her. Shortly before this disclosure, my W had announced that she didn't love me or even like me anymore and had no desire to "rekindle" our MR.

Since last week, my W has acted mostly "normal" and occasionally chipper. I'm thinking she might be back in contact with OM but I'm no longer focusing on things like this.

Two things I should point out in the context of what is currently going on in my sitch: 1) Up until I filed for D, I had consistently maintained that ANY possible reconciliation between me and W would start with OM no longer being in the picture. 2)My BIL asked me last weekend if there was "any chance" of reconciliation with my W. I said yes, but that the ball was in my W's court; I'm done with taking abuse from her.

Right now I'm keeping communication between my W and me respectful but to a minimum and mostly keeping to myself when I'm not playing with my kids. Basically I've dropped the rope.