Sad To Be Back 4 Years After The Bust

[steady]

Indy, I just read through your thread here and you are rolling around on the roller coaster. I watch your mood change with every passing change in your W's mood. You're flying all over the place. You go from - I've been crying my eyes out, to, I'm done, let's sell the house and let me move one with the next 1/3 of my life....

You have to get a grip. You have to isolate yourself from the sitch in your head. You already know this.

Nothing hinges on a sentence, or a look, or a mistake. Stop making every little thing a tipping point into a catastrophe.

I've seen a number of times in this thread where you have 'predicted' the future, (Negatively of course) and have been wrong. Get your head out of your @$$! Keep your head in right NOW. It has no business trying to get into the future...that is such a waste of energy. If you kept your mind where your feet are most of your questions would be non-existent. This future guessing is only your attempt at control...it's an illusion so let it go.

Now stop for a minute. Do you have a problem right now?? I'm talking right now as you read this sentence. I'm not asking about something from the past or the future, do you have a problem sitting right in front of you right now?

You need to take a very deep breath. And then another, and another...