Originally Posted By: Sara
Tristan, you are loving your wife in the only way you know how. What more can any woman ask of her husband? Don't worry about what other people think. It is your life and you have to live it.


Wow, well said. And you know, while there is some great advice here, your wife DOES have mental health issues. Depite that, she's not actually mean to you. It IS confusing to me too. Hard to advise. But this just occurred to me to ask you, Hypothetically....what would you do if a doctor said, "we found a pituitary tumor here on the CAT Scan and it affects her mood and judgment..."?? What would you do if your wife said "I don't want treatment"??

It's a tough call. What on earth must your mil feel about all this? I do feel sorry for her. If this were my daughter....I'd stick around as long as possible. I think...
j-

PS I agree with Coach and Puppy about the email & updates...keep it short!!

Last edited by 25yearsmlc; 09/11/09 12:15 AM.

M: 57 H: 60
M: 35 yrs
S30,D28,D19
H off to Alaska 2006
Recon 7/07- 8/08
*2016*
X = "ALASKA 2.0"
GROUND HOG DAY
I File D 10/16
OW
DIV 2/26/2018
X marries OW 5/2016

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