Hang in there HIW. People tell me that things always get better at some point.
They do. I didn't believe it when I first got here, but I can tell you first hand things get better.
I wish I could take the level of detachment I have today and give it to every single new person that finds their way in here. In my opinion it is the most important thing to get down as quickly as possible. But it's a catch 22 - you won't get it till you get it, and it usually takes a crap load of misery to get you there.
If you aren't totally detached from the spouse and the outcome it comes out in so many different ways.
MySitch Me-47 STBXW-41 D-5 S-8 ILYBNILWY-01/08 Want a D- 01/09 Physical Sep-01/10 D filed-06/10 Got 50% custody=09/11 Ride that wave!
