brandnewday, I don't understand what your questions have to do with GG's current sitch. Are you implying that if she shows interest in H's hobbies now that will lure him back?
I do think it's important to understand the dynamics of the R and recognize improvements that she can make in herself. But IMHO and from my own experience, GG needs to focus on herself right now and not on what her H may or may not want her to do.
Part of focusing on herself would be to also make changes. I think she is trying to save her Marriage, and not return to the "same" thing she had before.
But maybe I am wrong....
There can be no testimony without a test. I am praying to go through this test and come out the other end with a new and better marriage then before.
