Well after my melt down I got a text from her asking why I didn't take my little girl to the clinic. I asked her why I thought she was fine? I called my mom and my mother said that she has been having very bad diarrhea. My mother had called my wife because she thought that she was more available then me. I tried to explained that to the wife that and she understood.
Got to the clinic found out she has a virus and got the medicaiton. Told her what was going on. No argunments. I then asked her to come check up on them since I have to go to work. She said she has laundry. So I suggested for her to come tomorrow since I will be in counseling till about 8:30-9pm. She said thats fine.
For some reason I feel like its a break through I don't know I just feel good. Maybe its the meds kicking in but I don't think so. I have this vision of us going to Vegas and getting re-married down there with all the friends. Maybe its just a dream but I keep seeing it. (she is going in Nov with all the couples and one of her single friends.) I hope we can resolve our issues before then. Its just a dream but lets hope it comes true.
Me:27 W:24 S:2 D:9 months M:3 years Together for 8 years Bombed : 6/11/09 Moved out: 6/27/09 Found out about her affair 9/7/09 (she started her's at 6/25/09) Begged n plead 7/25/09 started DB 8/17/09