Should we become the people our WAS`s want us to be or follow our own hearts-even if it takes us away from them...
Example: I`ve rekindled lots of interests I`ve had in the past-music, art, yoga, reading-problem is H has no interest in these things and actually, is scathing of my interest in them(though that`s part of his MLC anger/jealousy thing)
I'm sorry to hear that he is angry and /or jealous that you have interests he doesn't share.
In the event that you two are not able to work this out...do you want to give up those interests? I do/would not choose to give up mine. My H is not concerned that I have separate interests in my case, however if he was....(see above).
I personally think it is risky (if not dangerous) for a couple to be too insulary (sp?). Doing things separately and then coming "home" gives you things to share and time apart to re-charge as it were.
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One of his whinges is that we have nothing in common.
