He wants his cake and to eat it, too... and it seems that he wants you to bake the cake while you are at it.
Let him find his own way home from the airport... perhaps it will open his eyes to the fact that you are not his personal doormat, driver and housekeeper.
M- 11 y H- 40 Me- 41 D (1st M) 19 S (1st M) 17 First EA (w/OOW)discovered 2000 Third EA (w/OOW & phone) discovered 02/06 SSM (total) 3 1/2 years