His accusations that you don't trust him are his way of getting you to say you do....it's rather childish. But you have to handle it the way you want.
I would say one of two things "Please don't tell me what I think or feel. I'm confused about it so how would anyone else know?" Or I would say "You're right about that." I guess you have a third option which is to say nothing.
Insulting. I've come to the decision, at least for me, that my H starting an EA was sort of insulting. Him having a PA, very insulting. Then to make me out to be the bad person, beyond rude. I've at least gotten an apology for the pain he caused and for some of his actions and words, but not for everything.
