How do you wait this out?

[pearlharbr]

I'm just not really a 'bar' kind of person...never have been.

Perfect. This is a great opportunity to do something different. You love sports and everyone else there loves sports. In my experience there aren't a whole lot of happy couples cooing at each other at a sports bar when a game is on. And men who aren't there with women are impressed with a single woman being there. Even if they aren't hitting on you they will talk to you about the game.

brandnewday, I don't understand what your questions have to do with GG's current sitch. Are you implying that if she shows interest in H's hobbies now that will lure him back?

I do think it's important to understand the dynamics of the R and recognize improvements that she can make in herself. But IMHO and from my own experience, GG needs to focus on herself right now and not on what her H may or may not want her to do.