If my W's A fizzles and dies a natural death over time will my W still experience an emotional meltdown?
If it fizzles, then she won't be interested in OM and therefore she won't have a meltdown due to the A......but she may react to her finances or whatever else she may have to deal with as the result of her A. However, if the OM dumps her while she is still running on her "love induced" chemicals, then she will more than likely have a meltdown. There are different things to consider and "where" she is emotionally in the A.
I know I've brought this up before, but I still think the best thing you could do is to "dump" her and act as if you are simply excited beyound belief at being single and able to date OW......and then proceed to do it. Now, that compromises what I feel as a Christian, but it would work. You think she doesn't want you? Test her and see.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
