Thanks for your thoughts, I just got back from Working out, and at least feel better physically now. I am down 35 lbs total now over the last 10 months.
Choosing to thrive, and moving from pessimistic to optimistic. The paradox and all that. I try and work on that daily.
All the things you mention I have been doing over the past few months. I will continue to do them, but at times things are overwhelming when you see what the outcome will likely look like. I am trying to not be bitter when the picture looks like now the W will be better off financially than me, but also only due to me paying her weekly, and single just like she wants.
M: 41 STBXW: 41 D: 9 Bomb: 4/26/09
On board the D train now..
"Suffering is when we try to change what we cannot."
