I mean that I saw the same replay behaviors during the QLC to a lesser extent - much more intense now. Of course, back then I really had no idea what was going on and why we couldn't seem to get along! Interestingly, he once recently when he was opening up to me brought up that time period and said how the issues were "swept under the rug" at that point. Yes, he definitely needs to deal with it now!!
I am trying so hard to just leave him the heck alone. I have seen some normal for him lately (whatever that is anymore) but now he is back into alien mode big time and it is hard to watch.
Personally, I am overall doing well - GAL, trying new things, making new friends, developing a much deeper bond with my kids than I had before while trying to keep their lives as normal and happy as possible. So it has been good for me in many respects.
