If he did not complete the QLC, he will repeat those behaviors now. When they are going through this, we have to allow "nature" to take its course. We cannot "snatch" and/or "snap" them out of it, for if you do, they will revisit the issues again at a later date and the crisis will be far more intense. It's interesting that you are seeing the behavior to a lessor extent. They are usually more so. It could be that you are leaving him alone and not putting any type of pressure on him. You may actually be more aware of the DB process than you think you are and that is helping the situation as well. Time will tell...
They facial expression is forced, very depressed and/or sad looking. The eyes are the door to the soul and now you can actually see that he is "dead" inside. He must go through the entire crisis in order to come out the other side.
The most important thing is that you take care of yourself during this time. Eat right, get plenty of rest and exercise whenever you can.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
