CIPA, you're handling a horrendously difficult and draining phase well. It won't feel like it at times although you already know that's what it is - a phase that you will move forward from with time.
Your kids are lucky to have you for their dad. One day, you will all be thankful for the way you are conducting yourself for them as best you can.
Deep,
Thanks for your support and encouragement
Me 41 WAW 36 S 3&7 M 10 yrs W files D 1/9/09 W moves out 4/18 Lost job 6/15 New job 7/27 Disc PA 8/10 (started Nov 2008!) Confronted 8/11 Admits PA & appologies for hurt 9/11 Lost Job 11/13