Well, finally got a response from my email on Tuesday about "I had talked to my buddy and told him that we would be attending and will see her there."

Here replies were:

"sorry i am just getting this message now, i guess you know the details now
i really wanted to take the kids to this as i have not gotten to do any weekend stuff with them and it is only a short time
i wanted to avoid any awkwardness since you have not wanted to do things together or even talk for that matter anymore
and certainly did not want to involve anyone else especially at something like a bday party which is for the kids and supposed to be fun
i still would like to take them to this"

and a second email

"so we are both going to be there???
how is it that you think you can do that but can't even do sunday evenings?"

I'm drafting a response (or more like Stronger to the rescue again to help me draft a response). She did send me a whole bunch of pictures of the kids and other "nice" factoids about the kids today. I just have a feeling she's buttering me up for some more BS....


Me 41
WAW 36
S 3&7
M 10 yrs
W files D 1/9/09
W moves out 4/18
Lost job 6/15
New job 7/27
Disc PA 8/10 (started Nov 2008!)
Confronted 8/11
Admits PA & appologies for hurt 9/11
Lost Job 11/13