Wdid, I just forwarded the email to my L. I will let her deal with it, or at least hopefully get some input on it. Kat, I felt sick (and angry too) when I read that. I had errands and driving the kids around all day so I've cooled off.
OK, is it a full moon or something. I had a weird day. I got a flat tire, a nail got stuck in it and it's toast. I have the roadside assistance that came out and changed it, and then I bought a new tire. It was a good thing maybe b/c the tire guy said 2 of my other tires are toast and I need to replace them so I will Tuesday (when I have enough cash). Then I picked up D9 and took her to therapy and got pulled over again for speeding. I was just thinking about therapy and chatting with D9 and oops! I did it again! The officer was so nice--I didn't have my tag or insurance (it was in the glove comparment but the repo guys took it out when my car got repod. Although X had the tag, I need to email him about that--tomorrow. I unloaded all this stuff on the officer-I'm going through divorce-I got a flat tire-taking my kids to therapy-the car got repod last week so they took out my paperwork. He was so nice only gave me a $10 ticket on the insurance stuff, and no points, and he didn't give me the $200 ticket he could have. So I actually feel very lucky today really!!!
I got a chuckle actually, just reread X's email about me respecting his boundaries. Come on, that is funny don't you think??? For him to say that to me!!!
I did a polite email back and said I'm thinking about the custody stuff and will get back to him. Told him about my meeting with D9's teacher. Said I didn't think to email before I dropped off D9's nintendo ds, but will in future.
NC, I'm sorry your X was a jerk about you dropping by, but made me feel better that I'm not the only one! You know, I recall at least once he's done that at my house, looking for D9's backpack when he raced off and left it. I didn't get upset over that though. Sometimes I think he needs prozac more than I do!!!
The one thing I am so glad I've learned is waiting to email until you are cooled off. Whew!!!
