Here's a question I forgot to ask Dotty about, how do I respond when he says I don't trust him and he's not sure he can live with that?
He had an EA and is trying to get it started back up again. He doesn't recognize it as such. He seems to think for it to be an EA, there has to be phone sex or telling fantasies of each other or something. He still maintains that they have never been anything more than friends. He doesn't see how she was pulling full buckets from his emotional well and leaving only drops for me (and our D).
I DID trust him (and still do physically), but it's getting harder and harder to do. I feel like the honorable man I know and love is lost to me now.