Sorry GIMA, not thinking too clearly, I meant to put down something along the line of, if she knows I am scared of the D, like a shark that smells blood, she'll move in for the kill.
I just bought a book on surviving d for men, and it paints the picture about as I see it. We have a large disparity of income currently, so I am going to get beat down money wise, for a D I don't even want. She gets the checks, and gets to be single, while I work for it.
Sigh. How do you accept that and make positive forward movement?
M: 41 STBXW: 41 D: 9 Bomb: 4/26/09
On board the D train now..
"Suffering is when we try to change what we cannot."
