I'm with the others...keep it mysterious. The fact that he is checking the site may be an indication that he is concerned and its not yet over, not sure though and I think the Gucci way is the way to go for now.
Will do, I have been re-reading my thread today to remind myself of how far I have come and to remind myself of what I should be doing, kind of reinforcing.
Think its good to go back over things and check your goals and thoughts.. I'd definitely stick with the mysterious Oz for the time being dont want to make him back off when he is starting to question things! I'd be tempted to do tea as normal then go get dressed up and go out looking hot! Doesnt matter where you go, but it sure will play on his mind all weekend.
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Once lost but now found and happily married again!
Hi Oz Not sure what to say on that one so will leave it to others - sorry to cop out. I'm worried about it though as I know that my H was doing the same before he took off. I think that he was looking for more validation down the negative lens - and he evidently got it. That's not to say that your will, of course!
I agree with the others - not being home is better than your original plan - even though harder for you.
How has your day been otherwise?
WAH 43; W 47 M 16; T 17 Cats 15 & 6 Bomb 27/05/09 ow 28/06/09
"It is only on the darkest night that we see the stars"
Well pretty uneventful disappointing night. I did go out all dressed up and got home very very late. Problem was he wasn't home, I ended up going to bed as it was so late and couldn't stay awake any longer. H came home not much longer after, came in and said that he was sorry forgot to tell me he was going out after work.
I replied that it didn't bother me, I had been out all night and had just got home.
There was no reply.
So all in all disappointing, he has left for work now and for his weekend away. Mysterious Oz will not be available via phone over the weekend.
Yes I will put last night behind me and won't be dwelling on anything, I am so looking forward to the weekend and it doesn't bother me that H won't be here.
I have dinner tonight with friends and tomorrow night D & I plan to spend Saturday night eating popcorn and watching the entire Sex & The City series. Something we have wanted to do forever but H doesn't appreciate the show very much, so we can't watch it if he is around.
Lots of things I want to do around the house, balcony garden, gardening outside. And of course to finish of the weekend a Mani and Pedi. The weather is going to be fantastic so I might actually get to sit outside and enjoy the sun.
Weather sounds heavenly we are rushing head long into Autumn here so treasuring each day of sunshine we have. Eve with D sounds fab, dont think my S would appreciate that much lol, he will be off with his GF all weekend, but I have a horse event to go to (not competing watching) and a party saturday night which Im looking forward too, getting all togged up lol!
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Once lost but now found and happily married again!
It is Spring here now and Summer and daylight saving is just around the corner which I love. It means I can walk the dog of a night and enjoy outside more seeing as I am now walking distance from the beach, yay.
Have a great time Sat night getting all dressed up. I love it when I can do that, there just aren't as many chances to do it as I would like. Have to introduce some more GAL activities where I can dress up.
