Lola Thanks for your time. I will buy nothing. It is my wife’s birthday today, I had my two girls make birthday cards last night and helped my oldest make a necklace out of chestnuts. The girls would have given their gifts to mom this morning. I did not send an email or text saying happy birthday. I had told her earlier in the week that I would not be home today after work and not to worry about me and dinner as I had plans and would be home late. My 10 year anniversary is tomorrow same thing ,no card and not acknowledge the fact. I as well told her last week I would not be home after work, I had pans and would be home late. I will spend the next day Saturday with my daughters and something memorable with them, and go to a house worming party Saturday night. My old life was all about my family and this is the start of GAL.