Speaking of confusing why were you at my complex today? did you plan on telling me about that? There are boundaries that need to be respected. while i wish i never had to interact with you i do so for the kids sake. i don't want to talk about any issues that don't relate to the kids, like (friends' name), nor do OW and i want unscheduled visits to my home.
I'm starting to think what Dday has been saying, that our ex's are all on the same drama schedule. Actually, I think their brains are all tuned to the same radio frequency: plan 9 from outer space, or something like.
Karen, my xW said almost the same thing to me last week. The prior Sunday she had IM'ed me to ask for some school papers -- so I scanned them into a large PDF document and tried to email them to her -- three times, but her email wouldn't accept them as her mailbox was full. I tried to tell xW to clear out her mail to make space but she couldn't seem to understand or acknowledge.
So, last week, I too was passing by and had the original papers and some personal items for S8 and dropped by unannounced. It only took a minute and I got to hug my S's --xW said nothing at the time. But when I got back home, I had a nasty-gram waiting in my email. Yes, as you can guess, she objected to me dropping by unannounced, giving the excuse that it "disrupts" our S's routines. (She's so full of b-s; I know for a fact that she doesn't keep them to any routine. And it's just more "do as I say not as I do" nonsense.) She even threatened that she was going to have to have the parenting coordinator set me straight.
But with a WAS, no good deed goes unpunished. So I'm not going to be so accommodating the next time she asks me for something.
