Originally Posted By: Coach
You puked all over your shoes.

"Wife, got the update. I always want to be kept in the loop about my girls. I will monitor their emotional well-being. I appreciate your help regarding them in this matter."
"I will pick the girls up on Saturday morning for soccer at 8:30 and will bring them back at 11:00."

no winking, no fixing, no trying to be funny, no pics, no gracias
This will not help. Looks like you are kissing her butt right after she moved out of your home and took your girls.

Do you have a plan for who pays for what?
A visitation schedule?


Ouch. Thanks coach, I always appreciate your advice. Yes, we do have a plan for who pays for what and a schedule for the girls. I talked briefly to a lawyer and it seems that I am paying for about what I would if it were legal child-support. We are sharing the girl's time 50/50 for the time being (which complicates the child-support issue).


Me: 36, W: 33, M: 10 yrs
Bomb: 1/09, Seperated: 9/09, Piecing Begins: 10/09

My story: http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubb...t=91&page=1