First, get some sleep. Nothing's going to make sense if you don't. Call your doc and get a sleeping med if you have to.
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Later, we sat in the same room and watched TV. We talked a little then too. I told her about my frustrations with work, etc. Again, I didn't want to think so hard about "what to do" - someone suggested trying to open up to her more, but at the same time I know I need to detach. Confusing.
Detachment is getting YOU to a point of accepting, and being ok with, the worst possible scenario. It is NOT about you being cold or indifferent to your W. Be polite to her, and just be her friend right now. All the while, keep working on you being ok with D if she goes that route.
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She did keep complaining last night about how her back was hurting, and that she was going to need to go to her massage therapist friend to work it out. I said nothing.
Good. When I started reading this, I thought you were going to say you massaged her back. Good hold back.
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She also asked if I wanted to go to the zoo with her and the boys on Sunday. I agreed, but not sure if I should.
What did YOU want to do?
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She's still on FB with this guy. I've said my piece on this. This particular piece is in limbo now.
Your call, but I see this as a problem. She's admitted to you she had "dates" with this guy or at least thought about them. She tells you to trust her but she won't cut off contact. Why?
Even if nothing happened, she has told you something almost did that while not a PA was inappropriate. When things go south for her again, where do you think she's going to look?
