Well, neither of those steps has been initiated by h. Here's my sitch...h called last Friday and asked if he could come over to get financial papers for his lawyer. I asked what papers that would be and he said he didn't know, the list was on his desk and he would have to get it on Tuesday. So, the phone call was about.....????? My birthday was Tuesday, no contact and nc since then. Advice? Suggestions? I was always the initiator in the marriage, so I guess making him initiate would be a 180?
Me 55 H 49 Married 21 years No kids bomb 5/09 filed 7/09 divorced and moving forward 5/10
