My W wanted me to sit down with her and help fill out the paperwork. Told her that she could send it in however she wanted and the L's would take care of the details. Whatever happens will be between the L's and doesn't have to be a fight with us. If she can't accept that then there is no chance and we won't be friends anyhow. Do what you have to do in this and protect yourself.
"Seek first his kingdom and his righteousness, and all these things will be given to you as well" Matthew 6:33
