Question to all. Way back at the beginning of our separation my WAW said she didn't plan on filing for D until 2010 because she wants to get on her pre-paid legal plan.
I thought that at least gives me time, but it also leaves me in a long limbo.
A few weeks ago she was still pushing separation stuff. She talked about changing the locks on the house. She wanted me to close the checking accounts. I am using one, she is using another, but they are still joint. She said she was bringing a Realtor over to look at selling the house (she can't do it without my approval, but I hadn't expected her to move so quickly).
In the last couple of weeks, we've had a few good talks. She hasn't brought up anything that would push a D forward. No mention of locks, bank accounts, Realtors.
We were together about an hour Tuesday working on challenging our tax assessment. She didn't say anything that would further our separation and we talked about how work was going for her after we finished the paperwork, but she had cleaned the office and had a stack of books of mine -- including my HS yearbooks -- for me to take with me.
Are these encouraging signs?
Me: 47, Ds 17-13, D final 6-11 http://tinyurl.com/yk4e2tz http://tiny.cc/thread2 http://tinyurl.com/ydtphqu http://tinyurl.com/thread4 http://tinyurl.com/3sm78k6 http://tinyurl.com/thread6
